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Monday, February 20, 2006

Confused,Concealed or Matured.....

What happened next if a guy proposed to a girl-- who is well known to her and whom she likes very much?
--20% will have the instant result(Yes/No) and discussion ends up there
--80% of them are taking a long time to reply the guy
what is the factor behind this..?????
Are they Confused of what to do next and not able to take decision of their own..
Are they Concealed and want to check the stablilty of the guy for some time with pain...
Are they matured than guys and think in all directions of future problems which takes time..
Is there any other factor behind this..??

19 Comments:

Blogger KC! said...

Naan solren, ippo Chennai ponnunga-nu vainga..80% think about their parents and their mentality before saying a yes, appa amma enna ninaipanga..edhutha veetu Kavya odipogum podhu eppadilam pesinanga adhu idhu-nu yosipanga. Appuram next level-la ivan therara case dhana, nammalai vachu kapathuvana-nu yosipanga...kadaisiya ivanoda naama sandoshama irupoma, will our dreams be achieved-nu yosipanga. Probably the flow might be different, aana idhellamdhan yosipanga. Micha state/countries-la ellam enaku therila..

February 20, 2006 8:11 PM  
Blogger Harish said...

In my humbe opinion it is perhaps to check if the guy is really in love or if he just wants to have a TIME PASS with her..
There is nothing wrong in this and perhaps a TRUE LOVE will survive the other temptations and will triumph against all odds..
Some may also be caught with family affairs...ex Jaadi pirachani and parents being caste conscious and wards not willing to forgo their parents..

February 20, 2006 9:04 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

nattukku romba avsiyamana discussion...nadakkattum!

February 20, 2006 11:31 PM  
Blogger Winson said...

Well, Damn good comments..i think,
thought proces would be
1...Is this guy/gal worth it?
It>
1...Parents Questioning
2...Society, Social Groups
3...Integration problems
4...risk of being outcaste
etc etc...I guess

but there is another class of confused ppl, who cant make a decision and leave everything for time to help them out.

February 21, 2006 1:56 AM  
Blogger Ramesh said...

andha 20%-la evvalo per chappal, shoe-aala adi vaangunaangalo.

seri seri. in my opinion, guys develop a luv for a gal too soon to anyone's liking.. but gals eppovum romba yoischi decide panra madhiri dakalti mattum viduvaanga..

February 21, 2006 7:34 AM  
Blogger radiantbear said...

So true girl you know take longer.. what if they are thinking it was all a joke??

February 21, 2006 11:57 AM  
Blogger logic said...

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February 21, 2006 1:03 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Haven't you heard of Pareto's law" 20 perecent of the cause leads to 80 percent of the effect". Never thought it would apply here though. With the skeleltons in the cupboard coming out after marriage, what do you expect?

February 21, 2006 2:10 PM  
Blogger Kavitha Jay said...

there are two possibilities..
1. if the girl already knew that the guy likes him....so when the guy proposes her...avva konjum build up pannuva...but if she likes him..then she will accept it after a while..
2.if the girl had no clue that the guy likes her..she will think about all the points winson said:)))

February 21, 2006 3:20 PM  
Blogger ambi said...

Adaa adaadaaa!

niyaamana santhegam, romba naalaga mandai kayaa veithaa vishayam..
Naan mattum pandyianaaga erunthaal 1000 porkasugal ungalukku thaan..

thanx for visiting my blog and tagging it.. keep blogging, alot to come in future...

February 21, 2006 8:44 PM  
Blogger logic said...

Your blog title rightly portrays a girls state when u propose her.

She will be confused first,
keep things concealed in her
(we never can attempt this process dude..when a guy fall in luv the whole world knows abt this..but when a girl falls in luv even the guy whom she loves will not know..)
and she acts matured at the end.

When a guy proposes a gal
"20% will have the instant result(Yes/No)"
U mean to say 80% of them will say
"i shall get back to u"..
No boss..

i would say..When a guy proposes a gal..
20 % says "Yes" and 80 % says "No"

And of the 80% who said instant "No"..there
will be another 50% of them who would have said "No" because she wants time to think..but from that moment she would have started loving you..and when she comes to a balanced point that you are ok in all aspects for her..
she might come back to you again..
or when u give a second try(as obv every guy does) she will be yours..

February 21, 2006 9:14 PM  
Blogger Kirukal said...

I agree with everybody here - parents, situation, future, confidence in the guy etc etc all play an important part in decion making...
More importantly mystery sonna maathiri the 'build-up' is essential. Oru paiyan propose panna udane accept pannita appram ponnoda ego enna aaruthu? Athuthan unmai.....and I think the guy also gets disappointed if the girl accepts too easily...love oda thrill kammi aayidum.

February 22, 2006 7:31 AM  
Blogger Known Stranger said...

there is a factor. a factory process a factor. Better dont get confused on this - just be relaxed.

February 22, 2006 12:41 PM  
Blogger neighbour said...

Regarding the comments for this blog I am not suppose to give any comments..

Yellarum avunga avaunga karuthai sonnadhuku nanri...

February 22, 2006 8:01 PM  
Blogger Lone Ranger said...

"Like" is not a foundation for marriage.

February 22, 2006 8:08 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I think that we can't draw the 20% or 80% line in general. While, its true that some girls look for humour, TDH or TFH guys with money quotient like
Anil Ambani, not all are like that.

I know a girl, who ooor suthified with the guy infront of every tom, dick and harry and then came up with one beautiful "marriage invitation" and "lets be just friends" story at last.

At the same time, a senior of mine, stood for her love for N years and won her parents approval and married the guy who loved her.

The same can be applied to guys as well.

February 25, 2006 9:43 AM  
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